Set clear rules about not drinking
Be specific
Tell your children what the law is, what your household rules are, and what behavior you expect. For example, "Alcohol is legal only for adults. Our family follows the law. We expect you NOT to drink alcohol before you are 21."
Be consistent
Make sure your children understand that the rules are maintained at all times, and that the rules hold true even at other people's houses.
Be reasonable
Don't change the rules in mid-stream or add new consequences without talking to your children. Avoid unrealistic threats.
Recognize good behavior
Let your children know how pleased you are when they respect the rules of the household.
Put it into practice
Write out your most important family rules and post them clearly where they are seen often by everyone in the family. Review the rules regularly with your family on your child's birthday or at the beginning of the school year.
